Credits Aisha binte lala

"Everyone is a friend, until they prove otherwise."


Have u ever wonder whether the friends around u are real?
Whether they are honest with themself and of cos you?
Have it ever cross your mind whether they were bitching about you behind your back
and they pretend to adores you when they are with you?
Do u mind about it?
Do u think that Friends must always approach one another whenever they are going out?
Do u feel that if a friend of yours dont talk to you for one day,its the end of the world?
Do u think its wrong if u were to be honest and direct to your friend about her/his behaviour?
Must we pretend to like them when we actually dont like them in a way?
Must we listen to them all the time?
Give in to them all the time? And dont give a damn about how you feel?
Do u think that its fair to always listen to them and follow what they want?
Have u ever thought about it actually?
Its irony...when u thought that the people u can trust are actually the people u should not trust
Get what I mean?
Its funny how they misuse that trust u have given them and they act as if nothing happens?
Its even more unbelievable when u thought that they are your best companions/buddies
but they are actually feeling like its a waste of time being your friend.
Have u ever thought about it?


"Life is partly what we make it, and partly what is made by the friends whom we choose." - Tehyi Hsieh

Sometimes they say that friends are the ones that are important in your life
They are the spicy ingredients that enhance the dull taste of life
And when u add these ingredients to your life and stir it with little/tons of affection
It actually turns out to be wonderful and tasty
But do u ever realise that one bad ingredient can actually spoil the wonderful and mystical taste of life?
Its up to the individual on how to make the recipe works wonderfully..
U can either sieve the bad ingredient or u can let it be and learn your mistake.
So tell me, is it wrong to filter that bad ingredient in the very first step
Or just let it stay in the recipe and learn from your mistake once the meal is done for tasting?
Would u rather suffer in the later part of tasting the meal or enjoy the very initial part of the meal where the bad ingredient is filtered?
Sometimes to be a great cook u need to experiment with these kind of ingredients
To know what went wrong.
But dont u think its a waste of time to do so? Why not just sieve it in the beginning which will make your life easier and much more better?
Have u ever wonder why these kind of things happen in your life?
Think about it. U might be surprise with the answers you got cos you never know
who your true friends are when the real time comes.


"Too late we learn, a man must hold his friend ..Unjudged, accepted, trusted to the end." - John Boyle O'Reilly

In the mean time, enjoy the company and filter the bad side of them.
Take the better side and inject them in your life.
U might be surprise to see the outcome.
Sometimes I wonder whether the people around me are real or just pretending to be real??
So tell me.
If u feel that u're alone and no one cares for you
Close your eyes and reach out your hand
Cos there is someone out there who is willing to grab hold of that hand
And make sure that they will never let it go once they hold on to it.
Be happy with what u have and make sure they are happy too =)
Cos Friends are Lovers
And Lovers are Friends
Love one another***
And tell them you love them despite their differences and weirdness(haha!)
Okay takecare beautiful people.
daaaaaaa* =)

"False friends aren't always that bad because it shows you about yourself and teaches you to be strong and life goes on."